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How delicious life can be once we allow ourselves to be whoever we feel like being - to be unapologetically ourselves

We can be anything! There is more than just one part within us, when we accept and honour them all without judgement that's when we truly start living deliciously.

I had a very basic but super profound realisation last week. One of those that go so deeply it feels like something/someone is taking you by the shoulders, shaking you, waking you up and you never feel the same after. What I realised is that the more we allow ourselves to be whoever we want to be, do whatever we want to do, wear whatever we want to wear even if it doesn’t make logical sense or might even be contradictory the more we blossom. Duh. We are no trees whose greatest success it is to stand in one space for the rest of the entirety of their lifespan. We are here to experience, to change, to adapt, to experiment, to go with the flow of life and to follow that sacred voice within. Here to live life to the fullest with all its different colours and facets, all its seasons and phases.

Today I might feel most powerful wearing loose jeans and a corset top with big shades, tomorrow I might want to wear a cute dress with a pretty hair tie and cowboy boots. Cool. Amazing. Wonderful. Gorgeous. It gets to be that fun. We get to follow that inner call of our soul.

For a long time I thought I had to choose. It’s either one or the other. How can I be spiritual when I don’t like to wear white flowy clothes all the time? How can I be a wellness girly when I don’t like beige? I can’t possibly wear a sexy top and talk about meditation and herbs, right?! Who would believe me? Who would take me seriously?

All these limits, all these beliefs, all these stereotypes steal our joy ever so sneakily because instead of being ourselves we become someone who we think we need to be, who we think we are expected to be. What then happens is quite astonishing we all start to look the same, dress the same, talk the same like little minions, little robots. 

I don’t wanna be a minion. I love to go with my moods. To wear different styles. To eat differently. To change with the wind. To go within and ask myself daily: What would make me feel my best today? Because every day is different. To listen to myself, my inner voice that always knows. T no longer search on the outside for answers the outside could never give me to begin with. Which btw is the definition of depression - to seek for answers outside yourself, answers you won’t find unless you tune within. 

I truly truly believe that when we stop chasing trends, stop obsessing over our color palettes, stop being so in our head at what we think is right and start listening to that inner voice, follow our intuitive nudges and let our inner child have fun with it all that’s when we are truly free. When we realise that we never needed anything on the outside to show us where to go because our inside has always been there to guide us. When we learn to listen and to trust that again we win. We set ourselves free. That’s when we truly start living and blossoming. And oh boy does it feel GOOD - ECSTATIC!! ❤️‍🔥🌸✨

In the words of the fab Florence Given - Life gets to be that DELICIOUS 🍒🩵✨

It's time to claim it ⚡️🌪️🔥